I do agree with Aristotle that there are There different type of friendships. The three friendships are pleasure, utility, and virtue. Personally I’ve never determines based on what services are provide them and what they do for me. Generally individuals separate between comfortably level, and closeness. After learning the differences it made me analyze every friendship I’ve had. Aristotles utility friendship is defined by individuals coexisting for means of mutual benefit. Another friendship is for pleasure, which is more for sensuality. The final friendship is o virtue an end. Someone who is by your side, with no agenda nor purpose.They just like to be around you and help you regardless of whether they will get anything In return. I can first identify a friendship for utility, for example my senior year of high school I made an unprecedented friendship. Lets call him Mark. Mark and I were both teammates ,but cam from completely different social groups, status, and background. He was was extremely talented at football and had every girl at school after him. I was the involved spirited friend of all. We always knocked heads due to people always comparing us an out abilities. well there was a major difference between us back home. Mark came from a broken household and has no support at school and after school. On the other hand I always had a wholesome meal backhoe and loving family. So one day I approached him and asked he’d like to put our differences aside and offer each other things. I would feed him every morning before school and in return I wanted him to help me get an advantaging the football field. We both started hanging out and boning a little and we both benefited. I became the top scorer in the team, and he was finery able to have a meal and have my family cheer for him as-well. I say this relationship was for utility, because after football season we went separate ways, for we no longer had something to offer each other, yet we both respected each other the rest of the school year.
Now another friendship I can see as pleasure is one of many young adults do nowadays. That is friends with benefits. I had two friends that had a been together since we were in kindergarten and as we approached junior year neither of them had prom date nor had a girlfriend. They both went to prom together which is no problem, but what cam next I belie was full pleasure. Both decided that since neither had experienced anytime of romance yet, that it was okay for them to make out and do other things that boyfriend and girlfriend would usually do. Neither of them ever put a label in what they were neither acknowledged each-other feelings. I found it hard to believe hard feelings were never created, but I guess it really was for purely pleasure. After they got bored everything returned to normal. They were still friends and glad that they did that together, because they trusted each other.
Now finally I recognize a true friendship a friendship of virtue. A friendship that has respect and honor. “the Friendship between these men continues to subsist so long as they are good; and goodness, we know, has in it a principle of permanence.” This quote stuck with me with Aristotles work because I am glad to say I believe have a permanent friendship. My friend Ulises. Ulises has been there for me since middle school. We have been there for each other through a lot of hurt. We have attended each others family funerals, and have had our close friends pass away, but out bod remained and we continued to be there for each other. We both were the loser in middle school with little social skills a small group. We spent our times at each-there homes, eating with each other families, and doing homework and video games. A pretty classic movie type deal right? Over he years we tried to up our game and get into weights and have makeovers. it wasn’t until high school until we both hit growth spurts and became ate;tic when we received a lot of attention.through it all we supported each other and remembered hen were just these dorky kids, and let me tell you we still are!! Now that were older, drive, work, etc. We so each other favors and support each other with no agenda. I can happily say that he is now my college roommate and I’m extremely happy because were Brodies haha. When my aunt was diagnosed with cancer and I pledged to shave my head for three months, he was the one to defend me from bullies. When his grandma passed away I was there by his side giving him words of encouragement. We graduated together and plan on being friends for longtime real friends, friends of virtue.
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